In the year of our Lord 2022, the weak ass Columbus Zoo (Ohio) elected violence as some fatphobic assholes named a gotdamn manatee after the queen we know as Lizzo. In the words of our good fren Zoie…

Hey y’all, heyyyy! It has been a minute, but I am back to dish on this fuckery we call dating. In 2020, I vowed to go one year without dating, and BOOM COVID-19 hit and helped me remain true to my goal and really grapple with life-long trauma with men…

The BBW Slay 2021 Dating Chronicles: Romance, Gaslighting & Confusion in Orlando (Part 1) Hey ya’ll! So, first, I’m so excited to learn how many Black women really find value in my blogs. I LIVE for creating good feelings for Black women, cuz chile, Lord knows we need it the…

Part 2: Big, Black & Optimistic So, my first date of the year was absolutely TRASH, but read part one to learn about that, because I’m in a good mood and I don’t need that ominous energy in my life. While I’m slick glowing right now, February was tough, but…

Dating as a Black girl is tough af. But dating as a plus sized woman can be dreadful as hell. You have to balance between “Damn…does he like Black women…because that hairline says issa no", while simultaneously questioning “Does he like his girls BBW?” Whew chile! …

So, let’s start with this — The HBO #BlackGirlMagic sitcom “Insecure” is HELLO DOPE; however, on behalf of Big, Beautiful and Black queens everywhere — we need the writers to do better with our sista Kelli. …

Yesterday on our Instagram page, a random, troll ass brotha came to disrupt a whole virtual celebration of black, bbw girl magic. I simply posted a nice, motivational post to lift the spirits of plus sized black women as we are all sick of people not stayin' the f*ck home…

Part 1: The Opening Date Scene Let me go ahead and warn those who haven’t seen this black, excellent ass film that this blog is the first of several that will have hella spoilers. You’ve been warned. …

Let’s start by acknowledging how random af I am. I was supposed to be in Hartford, CT right now turning up showing my entire ass at the Lizzo and Meg Thee Stallion (and some other people this old millennial doesn’t know about), but our girl Lizzo cancelled the damn show…but…